8 Years later I still blame Darren’s Halloween costume for surgery #22

I don’t blame Darren for Sam having surgery #22, but look at this costume and I’ll tell you why I blame the costume. Darren’s favorite time of year is Halloween. He loves dressing up in hilarious costumes and 2012 was inappropriate, adult Twister. Over the years I have endured him as a one night stand,Continue reading “8 Years later I still blame Darren’s Halloween costume for surgery #22”

Pre-existing Conditions is how we landed in Orange County

Year is 1996, Darren’s company wants him to transfer to Southern California. At that time, there were no laws protecting people with pre-existing conditions. None. We had to move. No choice in the matter because by this time Sam was a million dollar baby with so many health issues. Most don’t remember insurance was thisContinue reading “Pre-existing Conditions is how we landed in Orange County”

Apparently it wasn’t a whisper and why not have an evacuation during a pandemic

November 23, 1994, I did get myself to the hospital (that set a trend of how things would go with the next two kids – more on that later). This was the Wednesday before Thanksgiving. Know what happens that day? A lot of people leave for a long weekend to gather with family and beContinue reading “Apparently it wasn’t a whisper and why not have an evacuation during a pandemic”

A bit of the beginning and the current

26 years ago I was 25 and pregnant for the first time. Surprised, yes, but we were young and dumb. Yep, called us two engineering parents-to-be dumb. And that was a good thing at the time. More details will be written, but to get to current, it was a horrible pregnancy. Running very low bloodContinue reading “A bit of the beginning and the current”